Category: Affairs

Affair Confessions: What can you believe?

March 11, 2013
Andy sits at one end of the counseling couch, downcast, head in his hands, elbows on his knees. His gaze finally lifts from the space between his feet to settle...

Can Affairs Save Marriages?

October 3, 2012
I seem to be seeing more-than-the-usual number of articles or books promoting the idea that an affair might be an effective cure for a disappointing marriage. These writers suggest it...

Stuck in an Affair

May 14, 2012
John is stuck between his loyalty to his wife and his love for another woman. For the past few weeks, he’s been vacillating between them, hoping for a clear indication...

Wordwise: Security Through Integrity

August 1, 2011
Last week I listened to a man describe the ways he was affected by his recent affair. “It  change the way I experienced life,” he told me. “Each morning, instead...

I Forgive You, But I Don’t Trust You

July 26, 2010
I find that people are often confused about the difference between forgiveness and trust. They are not the same. Forgiveness says, “I choose to let go of this offense and release...
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